CAN YOU?

People only celebrate you when you distinguish yourself, if you don't, they will not only tolerate but despise you. What can you do? think, do something now and watch them bow for you. I know you can, and you can if think you can. 

MR ROSE IN HELL

There was a woman called Mrs. Rose in a small town called "Enyi" in this small town, there is a church, and Mrs. Rose happened to the richest person in that church and also the eyes with which they see, Mrs. Rose will always give to the poor in the public, gives huge amount of money in the church for Gods work and in the community for development, and people will praise her.

One day, Mrs. Rose died; in fact it was like the day of Docas of the Bible, after Mrs. Rose was buried, a young man dreamt where he died, and in his dream, an angel took him into a very beautiful place, in that place, he saw many people rejoicing but he did not see Mrs. Rose, he became so worried that he told the angel " there is a woman I am looking for" and the angel asked him the name of the woman, he said Mrs. Rose, the angel took him to a large and beautiful seating room, and brought out a big book, they started searching for the name "Mrs. Rose" but from the beginning of the big book to its end, Mrs. Rose were not found, the angel took him to a very handsome man, seated in a golden throne in a glittering palace, and he complained to the man who dressed like a king.

The man gave them another big book, almost at the end of their search, at the last page of the book, behold the name "Mrs. Rose", and the young man jumped in happiness and said to the angel "I told you she is here", but in disappointment, the angel told him that the people whose name are in this book are the people who are in the place of teeth gnashing, immediately the young man cried with a loud voice and said noooo she can not be there, She was a very good woman, she gave to the work of God, provided for the needy, donated money to the community, how can she do all this things and be there. He pleaded until the angel started pleading to the king on his behalf and after a while, the king decided to give Mrs Rose a second chance and ordered the angel to go get Mrs. Rose out of the pit. The angel took a very long rope and went to the pit with the young man, when they got there, the angel laid the rope down into the dip pit and called with a loud voice "Rose", a faint voice answered and said "I am here sir" the angel told her " this rope is for you. Hold on to it and climb up so that you can get out of the pit, she was glad to have that opportunity, and without hesitation she held the rope and started climbing with joy.

Mrs. Rose climbed and climbed until she was about two fit out of the pit, she now looked down and saw that other people are also climbing up with her, she said to them "why are you climbing up with me? This rope is for me alone, all of you must go down known" she started kicking them on the head saying "go down, go down, go down, go down" in the process of kicking other people, she loosed her grip to the rope and fell back into the deep pit shouting NOOOOOOooooooo. The angel gradually pulled up the rope in disappointment, and the young man cried in agony, the king came and with a gentle voice he said to them, "This is what Mrs. Rose was doing when she was alive on earth, she only gave in the public so that people will see her as a rich woman and praise her, she provided for the needy to attract love and respect for her self, she did not do all that in righteousness. She was an obstacle to other people's progress, she wanted only herself to be seen, she never allowed other people to come up and that is why she is in that pit, even when she has been given a second chance, she could not still repent. She has exhausted her chances of repentance. The young man cried and cried until he woke up from his dream.

We must be careful the way we live our lives, because after mans marking scheme, God has his own marking scheme and if he does not mark us right, we have failed. He has a purpose for bringing us into this world and I believe that it is to make the world a better place for humanity by promoting love, peace, unity and living a God fearing life. If we do not live to achieve this four factors, it means that we are a disappointment to our generation and to God our creator. We are the people to make the world a better place and the time is now, so let's work harder with sincerity, we are not far from Mr. Victory

Thanks for reading. PRINCE C.J BENJAMIN povetcj@gmail.com.

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DO NOT QUIT

Champions deny themselves the right to quit from any goal
they want to archieve in life.
It may interest you to know that in the process of archieving
a goal, you must meet chanllanges that will suggest "QUIT" to
you, but as a matter of fact, it is only a suggestion, so it now
depends on you to accept or reject it. My kind advice to you as
a champion in making is: never accept the suggestion to quit
because champions never quit, most times when the challenge is
thougher, that is when you are closer to archieving you goal.

You also need to note that the dept of your challange in life
determines the hight of your success. when you are meeting
greate challanges it simply means that your archievement will
be greate. If you have this at the back of your mind, you will
see quiting as an enemy of success and that is what it is.
Quiters has never archieved anything in life and will never do.
When you make your, plans do not make provision for quiting.

You are like a raw material in the refinary and you must pass
through processes to become a finished goods. some process can
be mild while some are harsh and painful but both will make you
a champion at the end. While you are still in the refining
process, do not abort yourself please dont quit.

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CHAMPIONS DONT SHIFT BLAME.

Every one can blame anybody for failure but the truth is that
casting blame on people will not make you become better rather,
it will make you loose responsibility of the things you should
do for your own good.
I come from a city where people blame their uncle, father,
mother, aunty, frinds and relations for not helping them.
It affected me also, when things were so bad and though for my
family, as a litle child then, i began to blame some members of my
family who were well to do. But as i was growing up, i discovered
that i do not need their help to become a champion, i realy needed
help but not neccessarily from them. I only needed to discover
the potentials in me and how to utilise them. Today, i am better
than most of them and their children.

Champions dont shift blame at all. Do not blame anybody for not
helping you, help yourself, think hard and produce positive
result. Note this: if you dont think, you will sink in this wild
world. Champions see blame factors as "challange", just sit up
and face your challanges, stop blaming witches and wizards.
If you realy want to be a champion, blame yourself in all and
remember to pick yourself up when you fall, just keep moving.
SOON, they will come to identify with you.

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CREATIVITY

Champions are creative. Academic knowledge is not a criteria for you
to become a champion in life,
many people have it but they are still very far from being celebrated.
Creativity does not require academic knowledge to make you a champion,
creativity can change your level of success overnight, from no body to
somebody, tolerated to celebrated, local champion to national champion,
then to international figure.

PROBLEM
People find it difficult to sit down and think. The truth is that you cannot
be creative if you cannot sit down quietly and think, the ability to be
creative comes from thinking deep. try it today you will see how positive
the outcome will be. A little idea that drops in your mind in you thinking
time can change your life for best, change your income status and pull you
out of dependency.

You can improve you current job, work and business, my dear think, add a new
thing, i mean something different from what everybody in your line does, you
will attract more attention to your business and before you know it "BOOM" your
product will be on high demand. I don't want to tell you stories of champions
who made it by creativity. But i challenge you, there is just a little thing
you can do to become a champion if you can sit down and think.

I celebrate you.
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NOT AFRAID OF FAILIURE

Champions are not afraid of failiure rather,
they see failiure as a teacher.
were ever they fail they analyse the steps
to their fall, learn from it and will never fail
in that area again.
If you are afraid of failiure you will not start
anything at all, note this: Anything you fear has
already defeated you.

Most people are poor today because they are afraid to
fail, devil tells them in their mind that they cannot
make it in life, thereby making them parasites. that
is why you can see someone who is 30years old and above
still dependent on even someone who is younger.

Do not be afraid to start something. let remind you, everything
you see exist today started one day by someone who has
one head, two eyes, nose, nouth, hands and legs like you.
So you will not be the first to start something. Academic knowladge
is not the determinant of your success, your gender doese
not matter naither doese you background do, what matters is
your passion to become a champion. Do not let anything limit
you, short or tall, black or white it makes no sense.

Just start let it be that you sterted and failed, and do not
accept that you have totally failed, you accept failiure when
you refuse to rise up again. You can always rise up again,
dont give up. For me, i believe that the only time i will
totally fail is when i die, as long as am alive anything
is possible.

If you want to be a champion, Do not fear to fail, face
fear and overcome failiure.

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FOCUS

A Chmpion maintain focus. Focus has much power that if you have it,
sometimes you will not know when you hit your target, but if you lose
focus somsetimes it may curse you to start afresh again which is always
painful espacially when you have gone far.

Take note: Focus speeds up your goal achievement,
but lack of focus delays your goal achievement.

THINGS TO AVOID
Frieds of different mindset.
Avoid friends that are not compactible with your goal, for example:
if you want to be a doctor, dont keep friends who are traders.
If you want to be an international business man, dont keep frienda
who are footbollers. Do not keep friend who do not have the same
passion with you.

Books.
Do not read books that has nothing to do with your goal,
if you do, you will lose focus

Places you go.
Mind the kind of places you spend quality time. If you spend quality
time in dico hall, party, etc, you are inviting failure.

Keep and stay close to all availabe things that can help you achieve your
goal.

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HOW TO LAY YOUR GOAL DOWN

Before i talk about laying your goals down, i must tell you how to discover you goal.
In the mind of every normal human there is a burning desire about something,
it can be; becoming the best singer, doctor, teacher, politician, pilot, footballer
manager of a company, accountant, buying a car, building a house, getting married,
it can be anything, small or big,
it can be short or long time goal, which ever one it is, as long as
it burns in your mind like fire,
that is your goal. Whenever you see someone in that position or doing that thing you feel
like you are the one doing it, you have so much passion for it, thought of it consumes you,
you feel like you are there already. You just dicovered your goal i can see.

Now that you have discoverd your goal(s) target in life, lets talk about how to lay them down.
1. Write them down in a sheet of paper clearly.
2. Attatch time frame to each of them, like days, weeks, months, years depending on the type of goal.
3. Arange them in their order of importance. (first thing first.)
4. Pest it on your wall, door, office, anywhere at all you can see it often.
Now its time to run with. See you on the track.





 

QUALITIES OF CHAMPIONS

GOAL GETTING.
Champions are goal getters. what is a goal? a goal is that thing you are tageting to achieve within a perticuler time frame. so when you see a man with a goal taget, you have seen a champion in making.
Most people are living their lives without even one goal, they are just living this life anyhow and that is
why they dont achieve any tangable thing before they die.

Look at this: A man without a goal in this life is like a footballer playing in the field without a goal post. That thing you want to get is you goal post and if you do not have one, even if you drible all the players including the keeper your dribling is meaningless because there is no goal post to score.
You are only celebrated when you score a goal in life and that is when you can be called a champion.

Do you have a goal? if you do, please run with it do not let anything or any person defocus, dicaourage or run you down because you are on your way to becoming a champion. If  you fall, dont stay down stand up
and keep striving. One day you will achieve your goal and become a champion.

But if you do not have a goal, please i beg of you to lock yourself up in your room, get angry and think of something tangible you need to achieve. let me tell you, life is too short to gaze about, you better start something on time before it becomes late to do anything, it does not matter how small, champions doese not always start big. It is said that "little dropes of water make a mighty occeaon" it may take a long or short time but how long doese not matter but what matters is that you achieve your goal at last.

Let me have your reply before i go to "HOW TO LAY YOUR GOALS DOWN."
Bye

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QUALITIES OF CHAMPIONS

I am coming up with the QUALITIES of champions.
Be expectant, as soon as i post it, you will discover
weather you are a champion or not
and how to become one.

REMEDIES FOR BODY ODOR 2

2. During the detoxification therapy, take herbs and supplements such as:

• Stringing nettle for blood purification.

• Sage tea to stop excessive sweating.

• Zinc up to 5mg daily.

• High potency vitamin b complex

• Digestive enzymes

• Chlorophylls are very essential.

• Chewing fresh leaves of parsley.



3. Improve personal hygiene:
Shave the armpit, groin and the pubic heir regularly. Bath and scrub those areas with soaped sponge. These are the parts of the body that harbor the fast growing odor producing micro-organisms.

After drying, any of the following can be applied:

• Alum,

• Aloe Vera gel,

• castor oil,

• white vinegar,

• Diluted solution of hydrogen peroxide,

• Baking powder or cornstarch.
Avoid wearing unwashed underwear and dirty clothes because these can intensify body odor.


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REMEDIES FOR BODY ODOR

An unpleasant odor is caused by several factors such as:
Heavy sweating (perspiration), which may occur under the arms, groin palms, sole of the feat and fore-head. And this may result from:

I. Hormonal charges during puberty intense emotional stress may stimulate the sweat glands under the armpit of groin to produce excessive sweat.

II. Excess iodine in the body may cause sweaty hands.

III. Prolonged wearing of nylon socks and shoes etc.

IV. Change of stage in life, such as menopause.

An offensive body odor is produced when the rapidly growing bacterial or fungi attack the sweat that is produced. Night sweat should be properly investigated in order to rule out serious health problems like tuberculosis and syphilis.

Body odor may be as the result of poor personal hygiene.
International pollution associated with constipation.
Intake of some food like garlic, onion, fish, eggs, red meat, excessive caffeine, fried and baked food items that contain rancid fats and oil.
Over growth of yeast cell due to excessive consumption of whit sugar.
Cigarette smoking and alcohol beverage consumption. It may be associated with more serous health problem such as:

Liver and kidney problems.

Fungi and yeast infection

Metabolic disorder e.g. diabetes mellitus.

Deficiency of vital mineral like zinc.

Low blood sugar level etc.
As soon as the above mentioned health problem are ruled out, it then become less difficult to eradicate an offensive body odor.

REMEDIES
1. Avoid processed food, white sugar and white flour products, hydrogenated oil, spicy foods like onions   and garlic, alcoholic and caffeine containing beverages and smoking.

• Embark on detoxification which includes: copious intake of water.

• Occasional intake of plain water or Aloe Vera gel enema or colonic irrigation.

• Regular intake of diluted lemon juice with ice cube.

• Fresh tomatoes and sage juice fluted pumpkin juice as a souse of chlorophylls

• Intake of up to 5g of activated charcoal every day, especially if the body odor is associated with bad breath.

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MAKE MONEY

MRS. ROSE

PART 2

She was a very good woman, she gave to the work of God, provided for the needy, donated money to the community, how can she do all this things and be there. He pleaded until the angel started pleading to the king on his behalf and after a while, the king decided to give Mrs Rose a second chance and ordered the angel to go get Mrs. Rose out of the pit. The angel took a very long rope and went to the pit with the young man, when they got there, the angel laid the rope down into the dip pit and called with a loud voice “Rose”, a faint voice answered and said “I am here sir” the angel told her “ this rope is for you. Hold on to it and climb up so that you can get out of the pit, she was glad to have that opportunity, and without hesitation she held the rope and started climbing with joy.

Mrs. Rose climbed and climbed until she was about two fit out of the pit, she now looked down and saw that other people are also climbing up with her, she said to them “why are you climbing up with me? This rope is for me alone, all of you must go down known” she started kicking them on the head saying “go down, go down, go down, go down” in the process of kicking other people, she loosed her grip to the rope and fell back into the deep pit shouting NOOOOOOooooooo. The angel gradually pulled up the rope in disappointment, and the young man cried in agony, the king came and with a gentle voice he said to them, “This is what Mrs. Rose was doing when she was alive on earth, she only gave in the public so that people will see her as a rich woman and praise her, she provided for the needy to attract love and respect for her self, she did not do all that in righteousness. She was an obstacle to other people’s progress, she wanted only herself to be seen, she never allowed other people to come up and that is why she is in that pit, even when she has been given a second chance, she could not still repent. She has exhausted her chances of repentance.
The young man cried and cried until he woke up from his dream.

We must be careful the way we live our lives, because after mans marking scheme, God has his own marking scheme and if he does not mark us right, we have failed.
He has a purpose for bringing us into this world and I believe that it is to make the world a better place for humanity by promoting love, peace, unity and living a God fearing life.
If we do not live to achieve this four factors, it means that we are a disappointment to our generation and to God our creator. We are the people to make the world a better place and the time is now, so let’s work harder with sincerity, we are not far from Mr. Victory.

MRS. ROSE

PART 1
There was a woman called Mrs. Rose in a small town called “Enyi”

in this small town, is a church, and Mrs. Rose happened to the richest
person in that church and also the eyes with which they see, Mrs. Rose
will always give to the poor in the public, give huge amount of money
in the church for Gods work and in the community for development, and
people will praise her. One day, Mrs. Rose died; in fact it was like the day of  Docas of the Bible, after Mrs. Rose was buried, a young man dreamt where he died, and in his dream, an angel took him into a very beautiful place, in that place, he saw many people rejoicing but he did not see Mrs. Rose, he became so worried that he told the angel “ there is a woman I am looking for” and the angel asked him the name of the woman, he said Mrs. Rose, the angel took him to a large and beautiful seating room, and brought out a big book, they started searching for the name “Mrs. Rose” but from the beginning of the big book to its end, Mrs. Rose were not found, the angel took him to a very handsome man, seated in a golden throne in a  glittering palace, and he complained to the man who dressed like a king. The man gave them another big book, almost at the end of their search, at the last page of the book, behold the name “Mrs. Rose”, and the young man jumped in happiness and said to the angel "I told you she is here", but in disappointment, the angel told him that the people whose name are in this book are the people who are in the place of teeth gnashing, immediately the young man cried with a loud voice and said noooo she can not be there.

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FREE FROM FEAR

Is it possible to be free from fear in this dangerous and unpredictable world? Yes, it most definitely is! Because protection is a solid promise of God.


But it is not a promise that is offered to just anyone: it is a promise to those who abide in the lord. To abide means to dwell, to remain and to continue. To abide in the shadow of the almighty is live in continual union with him, keeping his word and obeying his voice. Those who abide in the lord can live without the dread of what the devil will do.

Let me make this clear, Gods promise of protection doesn’t guarantee that the devil will leave you alone ! it means that God will give you a way of escape every time the devil rears his ugly face at you.

If you are afraid of the dangers around you, spend more time in the word and in prayer until your trust in God overcomes your fear.

Draw closer to God until you are abiding under the shadow of the almighty and- no matter how dangerous this world becomes, he surely shall deliver you!

Psalm 91:1-3

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PERSIST TO SUCCEED

PERSISTENCE


One of the keys to success is persistence. No successful person ever made it just in one day; neither did they pick it on a Plata of gold. The road to success is never easy you must pass through fire and thorns, which i call your time of test because there is no testimony without a test. Before you can become successful in life you must fall many times and rise many times. It takes a person with persistence to break through the tick walls that leads to success.

There is no crown without a cross. Quitters have never achieved anything in life; let me tell you no matter how tough it may be, it must end one day because it started one day. Whenever you are faced with a huge challenge, don’t be discouraged, persist, keep striving until you overcome it. Even if it may seem that you have failed, refuse to accept failure because it is only when you accept failure that you have really failed, and know this, “success is not certain and failure is not also certain.” Roberth H. Schuller. Learn from your failure and draw a new plan.

It is always said that the patient dog eats the fattest bone. Don’t be in hurry but keep persisting and apply faith. Check out this illustration of an Asian bamboo which even after five years of watering, weeding and fertilizing is barely visible above the ground. Then in a span of about six weeks, it grows two and half feet a day to 90 feet and higher. It grows so fast that you can literally hear it growing. May I ask? Did the bamboo grow 90 feet in six weeks? Obviously it grew 90 feet in five years, for all the time when its growth wasn’t visible it was developing a massive root system that will later support its magnificent growth.

Check your life now, have you planted? Have watered? Have you weeded? Have you fertilized? If you have done all this things and nothing seem to be happening, keep watering and fertilizing, you are developing strong roots that will sustain you when you grow. Let me tell you this: the reason why you should not quit is that when you feel like quitting is when you are closer to your success. Do not look at that your present Circumstance that way, it is just a refinery machine that is making you, because you are a raw material and must pass through processes to become a finished goods.

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DO IT ANYWAY.

Poeple are often unreseanable, illogical and self-centered:
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, poeple may acuse you of selfish and ulterior motives:
Be kind anyway.

If you are successfull, you will win some false frieds and some true enemies:
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you:
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spent years building, someone can destroy it overnight:
Build anyway.

If you find senerity and happiness they may be jealous:
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, they will often forget tomorrow:
Do good anyway.

Give the world your best, it may not be enough:
Give the world your best anyway.

YOU SEE,
In the final analysis, it is between you and God:
It was never between you and them anyway.

TIPS TO SUCCESS

HAVE A DRAM GOAL

There is always heat after cold, winter after summer, day after night and reaping after sowing. It is natural that if you don’t sow, you cannot reap and in the three stages of human life thus: childhood, youth and adulthood, the sowing time is the youthful time because it the time when you still have strength and hot blood to work. Life is too short to be joked with and if you fail to sow in your youthful time, you will become nothing good but a parasite in your old age, and if you have children when your they see the success of your age mates, they will ask you, “where were you and what were you doing when your mates made their success?” this is a very shameful question.

In this book, the kind of sowing I want to talk about is investment. In this life, I have discovered that if you don’t invest, you won’t harvest and before you invest, you must have a vision or goal. Dream and goal are the drivers of human life propelled by determination. Have a goal you want to achieve in life because any human who has no dream or goal that is driving his or her life, has no destination in life and so does not deserve to live but to die and give way to people who are walking towards their destination.

Your dream and goal determines your life pattern. For example, if you have the dream of becoming the president of your country, your life pattern will be political because you are pursuing a political goal. If your dream is to become an accountant, you will see yourself living like an accountant. If your dream is to become a teacher, your life will be geared towards teaching, and if you dream to became a pastor, you will start living like a pastor.

May I say this; your dream is the pathway to your destiny. So what is your dream? Write it down and make it clear. Well, having a dream is not enough; you have to take action now.

TAKE ACTION
Most people have dreams but do not take action that is why you see old people who cannot boat of a tangible achievement, if you have dream but don’t take action, your dream dies. Start working on your dream before it becomes late. The earlier you know that taking action result to either success or failure, the better for you. If your action gives you failure, don’t stop, stand again with courage and forge ahead with determination because success is not the absence of failure but the conquest of failure through persistent effort in the direction of your dream. Before a child stands and walk, the child must have falling so many times, but his ability to stand whenever he falls makes him walk permanently one day. In fact, I have discovered that failure is inevitable, check out the successful people around you; you will discover that they have failed many times but because they refused to be held down by failure, they have counted success. Wise people learn from failure and every failure prepares you to a higher level of success and gives you new experience of life.

Abraham Lincoln failed eleven times in his life, but finally became the president of America and the greatest among all.

In 1831, he failed in business
1832, defeated for legislature
1833, second failure in business
1836, suffered nervous breakdown
1838, defeated for speaker
1840, defeated for elector
1843, defeated for congress
1848, defeated for congress
1855, defeated for senate
1856, defeated for vice president
1858, defeated for senate
1860, elected president of the United State of America.
He persisted in his action and America and the world still stands up for him till tomorrow.

Martin Luther king jnr had the dream of putting a stop to racism, and in the process of pursuing that dream, he was jailed twenty different times but still achieved his dream. Today, blacks enjoy equality with whites, as OBAMA a black, is now the president of AMERICA. It is a dream come true. 

Bear it in mind that “behind every glory, there is a story”

Failure brings you closer to your success.

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THE HIDDEN TRUTH

One of the feminine accidents is having an unwanted baby while still in school. There is no point hiding the truth from the man you want to share the rest of your life with, because eventually he will get to know after marriage and this will really hurt on him. He will not only lose confident in your person, he hardly can ever trust you in any matter again. This does not augur well for any marital relationship. The man will only continue in that relationship if he has a very large heart, a heart torched by God.

ANOTHER FEMININE Accident is damaged womb as a result of frequent visit to abortion clinics. In some cases the wombs are totally removed in other to save lives as a result of illicit fun: victims such escapades should not hide the truth from their would-be-spouses. It the spouses discover the truth after marriage, trauma follows and hardly do such relationship survives. At best the spouses will just divorce quietly or bring in another woman without a protest from the guilty wives.

Some wives especially the wayward ones, hide the truth from their husband when they surfer some feminine professional hazards, such women usually have extramarital affairs and occasionally such affair result to pregnancy. Abort under ones husbands roof, especially when there is no medical for its not only absurd, it is also suspicious. Immediately such women discover they are pregnant illegally, they manipulate their husband into having regular intercourse with them. They then transfer the pregnancy to the innocent man. However the truth will always be uncovered either through one of the parties who new the genesis of the bastard child, the physical features of the child, the character traits or the mother herself. When it occurs the innocent parties are emotionally wounded and more often than not such wounds trigger negative chain reaction.

There are others, both men and female who have traded their bodies for fame or riches. Most times, they trade their productive organs. For the rest of their lives, they will never have children. Some do before marriage, some do it while married with just a child or no child at all as at the time they take the oath. Some enter into terrible blood covenant without the knowledge of their spouses. In such cases, some unusual occurrence begins to take their turn the family relationship and the innocent partners start wondering. In their search for the why’s of their situation, they stumble on the truth. Consequently, they confront the guilty partners and the end result is not usually palatable. Except there is divine intervention, such marriages usually hit the rocks.

Tinukes case was quit a different one. She was brought up in a highly disciplined family, so she was still a virgin as at the time of her marriage to Tunde. Moreover she was God fearing as the time of her wedding, she counted herself fortunate to have hooked a young man who never held her hands, gave a peck or expressed any uncontrolled emotions until the D-day. She thought she was equally getting married to a virgin of a man. The first few weeks passed, there was no major event happening at night between the two of them. Weeks ran into months and she became worried. She summoned courage and made the advance on this never-to-be-forgotten night, only to discover that the virgin husband is not only rigid in bed, he was also really impotent, he cannot perform.

Tinuke did not seek any consultation after trying three times. Tuned went to work as usual only to meet an empty hose on his return. He new that the hidden truth has been discovered, he could not contest it by checking tinuke up in her parents residence. He quietly resigned himself to fate. That puts an end to that marriage.

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GREAT MEN DO NOT MAKE NOISE, THE POTENTIALS THEY CARY INTRODUCE AND SPEAKE FOR THEM.

ARE YOU ONE?

PROMISE YOURSELF

Promise yourself
To be so strong that nothing can disturb
your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every
person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is
something in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and
make your optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for the
best and expect only the best.To be just as enthusiastic about the success
of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press
on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times
and give every living creature you meet a smile.
To give so much time to the improvement of
yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger,
too strong for fear, and too happy to permit
the presence of trouble.

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"Wisdom is the principal thing;
Therefore get wisdom.
And in all your getting, get understanding." -- Proverbs 4:7

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COMPROMISE

A THOUGHT FOR US!

Compromise is not always bad. Obviously there are moral and ethical standards taught in scripture that leave no room whatsoever for compromise. But compromise is much broader than that. Sometimes it’s wise to compromise. Without, compromise disagreements cannot not be settled, so negotiations grind to halt. A good relationship is maintained and strengthened by compromise. Siblings who do not compromise, fight. Nations with differing ideologies that refuse to listen to each other and won’t compromise at various points, go war.

Are we saying this is easy? Or free from risk? Or that it comes naturally? No. it’s much easier and safer to stand your ground, to keep on believing that your way is the only way to go and that your plan is the only plan to follow. One major problem, however, is that you wind up narrow-minded and alone, or surrounded by non-thinkers. That may be safer, but it isn’t very satisfying.

While pursuing true character, don’t miss wise compromise. Give your heart permission to flex! Be tolerant of those who don’t think like you, don’t care about the things you care about, and don’t vote like you. Be tolerant of those whose fine points of theology differ from yours, whose worship style is different. Be tolerant of the young if you are older and tolerant of older if you are young. Jesus wanted his followers to be people of simple faith, modeled in grace, based on truth. We could get hurt but it worth it to. In relationships, conflict is inevitable. REAL LOVE MEANS SAYING YOU’RE SORRY AND MEANING IT.


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WORD FOR TODAY

Life is full of strugle, only people with determination make the best out of it, regardless of gender.