THE HIDDEN TRUTH

One of the feminine accidents is having an unwanted baby while still in school. There is no point hiding the truth from the man you want to share the rest of your life with, because eventually he will get to know after marriage and this will really hurt on him. He will not only lose confident in your person, he hardly can ever trust you in any matter again. This does not augur well for any marital relationship. The man will only continue in that relationship if he has a very large heart, a heart torched by God.

ANOTHER FEMININE Accident is damaged womb as a result of frequent visit to abortion clinics. In some cases the wombs are totally removed in other to save lives as a result of illicit fun: victims such escapades should not hide the truth from their would-be-spouses. It the spouses discover the truth after marriage, trauma follows and hardly do such relationship survives. At best the spouses will just divorce quietly or bring in another woman without a protest from the guilty wives.

Some wives especially the wayward ones, hide the truth from their husband when they surfer some feminine professional hazards, such women usually have extramarital affairs and occasionally such affair result to pregnancy. Abort under ones husbands roof, especially when there is no medical for its not only absurd, it is also suspicious. Immediately such women discover they are pregnant illegally, they manipulate their husband into having regular intercourse with them. They then transfer the pregnancy to the innocent man. However the truth will always be uncovered either through one of the parties who new the genesis of the bastard child, the physical features of the child, the character traits or the mother herself. When it occurs the innocent parties are emotionally wounded and more often than not such wounds trigger negative chain reaction.

There are others, both men and female who have traded their bodies for fame or riches. Most times, they trade their productive organs. For the rest of their lives, they will never have children. Some do before marriage, some do it while married with just a child or no child at all as at the time they take the oath. Some enter into terrible blood covenant without the knowledge of their spouses. In such cases, some unusual occurrence begins to take their turn the family relationship and the innocent partners start wondering. In their search for the why’s of their situation, they stumble on the truth. Consequently, they confront the guilty partners and the end result is not usually palatable. Except there is divine intervention, such marriages usually hit the rocks.

Tinukes case was quit a different one. She was brought up in a highly disciplined family, so she was still a virgin as at the time of her marriage to Tunde. Moreover she was God fearing as the time of her wedding, she counted herself fortunate to have hooked a young man who never held her hands, gave a peck or expressed any uncontrolled emotions until the D-day. She thought she was equally getting married to a virgin of a man. The first few weeks passed, there was no major event happening at night between the two of them. Weeks ran into months and she became worried. She summoned courage and made the advance on this never-to-be-forgotten night, only to discover that the virgin husband is not only rigid in bed, he was also really impotent, he cannot perform.

Tinuke did not seek any consultation after trying three times. Tuned went to work as usual only to meet an empty hose on his return. He new that the hidden truth has been discovered, he could not contest it by checking tinuke up in her parents residence. He quietly resigned himself to fate. That puts an end to that marriage.

Be carefull in life